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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 02:50

How does one succeed in life?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What are the coolest new smart home gadgets to upgrade your living space?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What I need from you?

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Making more friends is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

That's it for today.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why did my ex replace me so fast?

Ask yourself:

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why do US military soldiers/officers have a chest full of medal ribbons when they probably haven't been in a combat situation? Are the medals for attendance, good behaviour, or long service perhaps?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How many wishes do people get on their birthday?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Procrastinates a lot.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Does not procrastinate.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.